Our family spent a morning playing putt-putt. As someone with little patience during any kind of game, I am not an avid player. Unsure of whether it鈥檚 a universal rule, I was happy to learn that we鈥檇 have a limit of five turns per player before we moved to the next hole.
Everyone seemed to have a different strategy. In hitting the ball, my father in law, a seasoned player, was careful and measured. My daughter was quick and stubborn. The rest of us, somewhere in between.
At some point in the first few holes, my husband introduced the term, 鈥淕immes.鈥� He explained that when you鈥檙e pretty close to the hole, you count it as a win, and name it a 鈥済imme.鈥� A win without winning. Outrageous! While this may be accepted in the world of putt-putt and golf, it is entirely unacceptable in my book. No Gimmes in life, no Gimmes in Putt-putt.
Because unfortunately, that鈥檚 the truth. One may believe they are inches away from a finish line, success in sight, while the competitor breezes past, determined to push forward. I remember receiving my grade in Algebra: an 89.4. .1 away from what would be considered an A. No Gimmes.
I鈥檓 often asked why God won鈥檛 give us exactly what we want. Why do we pray when God doesn鈥檛 seem to favor the 鈥済imme鈥� rule? But I try to reframe the experience. Prayer isn鈥檛 always about granting requests. Prayer can be an opening for a conversation with God, refining and reclaiming one鈥檚 thoughts and direction. God has already given us the building blocks to grow and push forward. Should we ask for help, assistance and support? Yes. Should we expect a hole in one without putting in the work? Probably not.
Psalm 121 begins, 鈥淚 lift up my eyes to the mountains. From where does my help come?鈥� The answer isn鈥檛 so straightforward. The Psalmist replies, 鈥淢y help comes from the Lord, maker of heaven and earth.鈥� God may be the source of help but heaven and earth are replete with God鈥檚 seeds of encouragement. Which means, often, God鈥檚 help is found within.
No need for a gimme. God gives us exactly what we need. Just look within. Search with resolve and Grace. You鈥檒l find what you鈥檙e looking for.
Rabbi Nicole Guzik is a rabbi at Sinai Temple. She can be reached at her Facebook page at or on Instagram . For more writings, visit Rabbi Guzik鈥檚 from Sinai Temple鈥檚 website.
